Believe what their behavior is telling you | Mel Robbins #Shorts

Always believe a person's behavior as it reveals their true priorities, and decide if that behavior aligns with what is deserved and acceptable.

• Trust behavior over words to reveal true priorities.

• Evaluate if observed behavior is acceptable and deserved.

• Clearly express needs and accept reality to avoid resentment.

A person's behavior consistently communicates their true priorities and what they genuinely care about, regardless of their words. It is crucial to acknowledge this reality and then evaluate if such behavior aligns with one's personal standards and what one is willing to accept in a relationship. People change only when they desire to or are capable, meaning individuals must decide whether to accept someone as they are or seek a different path.

Belief in Behavior

• 00:00:00 Their behavior is a direct indicator of their priorities and what truly matters to them. If their actions show that your needs are not a priority, it is essential to accept this truth. This acceptance allows an individual to reflect on whether this behavior is what they deserve and are willing to tolerate in a relationship.

Relationship Mistakes

• 00:01:15 Two common mistakes hinder relationship health: first, failing to express needs and the impact of behavior maturely, thus denying the other person a chance to understand or change; second, making an ask, having it ignored, and then making excuses, which fosters resentment and maintains a fantasy about the relationship instead of accepting its reality.